Development Stages of
Six and Seven Year Olds

Social - Emotional

Six-year-old
Likes to work, yet often does so in spurts
Does not show persistence
Tends to be a know-it-all
Free with opinions and advice
Brings home evidence of good schoolwork
Observes family rules
Gender-role stereotypes are rigid
Friends easily gained, easily lost
Finding a place with peers
Tests and measures self against peers
Makes social connections through play
Friends are of the same sex
Believes in rules except for self
Active, outgoing
Own activities, pleasure taking precedence
Charming
Proud of accomplishments
Seven-year-old
More serious
Sensitive to others' reactions
Eager for home responsibilities
Tractable and polite at home
Complaining, pensive
Shame is common emotion
Leaves rather than face criticism, ridicule, disapproval
Complains of unfair treatment, not being liked
Shows politeness and consideration for adults
Enjoys solitary activities
First peer pressure: needs to be "in"
Wants to be one of the gang
Relates physical competence to self-concept
Impatient

Intellectual - Cognitive

Six- and seven-year-olds
Works in spurts, not persistent
Letter and word reversal common
Learn to read
Can consider others' point of view
Use logic, systematic thinking
Can plan ahead
Enjoy collecting: sorting, classifying
Beginning math skills
Can sequence events and retell stories
Concepts of winning/losing are difficult
Like games with simple rules
Appetite for "real" knowledge
May cheat or change rules
Want "real" things: watches and cameras that work
Sift and sort information
Can conceptualize situations

Language

Six- and seven-year-olds
Enjoy putting language skill to paper
Talk with adults rather than to them
Chatter incessantly
Dominate conversations
Speech irregularities still common
Learning to print/write
Acquisition of new words tapers off
Bilingual capacities nearly complete if English is second language
Ability to learn new language still present

Physical/Motor Development

Six- and seven-year-olds
Growth has slowed
Basic skills developed; need refinement
Need active play to let off steam
Like to test limits of own bodies
Enjoy acrobatics
Value physical competence
Work at self-imposed tasks
Need daily legitimate channels for high energy
Learn to ride two-wheelers
Enjoys challenges in balancing - skating, skiing
Motor development is tool for socializing
Bones growing and solidifying
Boisterous, enjoy stunts
Like to roughhouse but may get hurt
Susceptible to fatigue
Visual acuity reaches normal
Hungry at short intervals
Insatiable taste for sweets, especially after school

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